I hope that further down the line it continues to be more socially acceptable to have an undefined sexuality. Some parts of our sexual identity will forever remain elusive and ineffable. I just joined reddit so i have no clue what i’m doing. Almost half – 48pc – said they wouldn’t choose either label. I don’t really identify as a lesbian because i’ve dated predominantly men. In my experience, not wanting to see your sexuality in one particular way can be a sign of an internal struggle,” says eithne bacuzzi, a psychosexual therapist with relationships ireland.
Dont like labeling myself bisexual. Piece saying, “i am a bisexual cuban-american woman and i am so proud of it. Different human cultures make for extraordinarily varied human experiences. Not a bad thing! just an observation. There can be an urge among people to want others to identify as strictly one way. The term bisexual is an inclusive identity, a historic identity, and one that all sexually fluid individuals can rally around. Openly about her bisexuality and has challenged society’s biphobia and bi-erasure. Like at least some men who enjoyed sex with men so bought into the heteronormative schema that they would see little contradiction or feel little consternation between simply marrying a woman in order to have children and fulfill the ideal of a man in their culture while just as simply having sex with men on the side.
Sometimes it makes me feel like i’m a ‘fake’ bisexual, but eh, whatever. So when i liked a girl i just ignored it.